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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-31 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #6051 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6051 ⌋

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Re: Unmarried women - help...?

(Anonymous) 2023-08-01 06:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, that’s a lot like my situation in a way (small family full of health issues and troublesome relatives. Not my parents thankfully, but their parents…) and gave up getting over the “yikes” over anyone getting close. Except my “okay” government job was giving me too many headaches and (most women there lived comfortably BECAUSE THEY WERE MARRIED and) I started getting very ill to the point of thinking my painful breast meant dying soon and quit it all. So now I don’t even have that, and maybe it’s why the depression got me.

It’s weirder that when I am feeling okay, what I feel instead is “Good God I am so glad I don’t have to see anyone” so I do worry that I am not even building the social circle I may need one day. So it’s less a matter of “my choices make me unhappy” and more one of “how to support myself when I am like this?” and society doesn’t seem to have an answer for that because being like that is “wrong” to begin with.

Thanks for your words of support and best regards to you too, anon.