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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-09-19 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #6101 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6101 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Re: Question thread.

(Anonymous) 2023-09-20 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for your response.

We do -not- have a safe word and that is definitely a rookie, but devastating mistake on my part. I had been under the impression from the other finDommes that those are only used between actual -partners- who have an emotional intimacy alongside the dynamic. I see now that I was not educated properly and I've done both myself and my subs a disservice. I really should have known better seeing that I've used safe words with non-Findom related activities, this should have been no different.

I'm going to just cut him off and put him on a blacklist. I'm pretty sure he's not reasonable and can be talked with. I'll also check in with my other sub and renegotiate our contract and terms to include a safe word.

Thank you so much, this baby Dom is very appreciative of your time and advice.
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Re: Question thread.

[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2023-09-20 05:15 pm (UTC)(link)
it's completely understandable from the advice you've been getting. i think you could also find general bdsm communities and books and see which types of advice you could adjust for your personal use. good luck anon.