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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-11-15 03:31 pm

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How to be a whore

(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
According to reels I've seen in the last few months by people like Andrew Tate and his acolytes and wannabes, here are a list of ways you (if you're a woman) can become a dirty, 'ran through' slut. No sex required.

- go to art exhibits
- go to your female friends' birthday parties
- travel
- go to clubs
- have been in the vicinity of fancy cars
- go on 'girls night' type trips with your female friends
- bonus! if you have a boyfriend and you also have a male friend you do non-sexual stuff with? You're cheating.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Andrew Tate believes that women should be confined to the home and treated essentially as slaves, so this tracks.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
I mean, yeah, but I've seen it from other creators too.

I honestly feel like society is going a little bit backward in regards to how women are viewed. As a kid, the idea that a married woman is supposed to submit to her husband seemed like something only super-religious people believed. Now I see it treated as a normal expectation.

And it seems like feminists these days are more interested in getting mad at trans people doing anything, than trying to combat this kind of crap.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah no you need to renew your circles. That shit is definitely not normal. I honestly don't know anyone in my circles who thinks like that or is spending their time mad at trans people wth. Get off the internet more and/or take a solid look at who you're following and where you're spending time and fix that shit. You don't need that in your life.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I think social media makes it seem more widespread than it is. The average man in real life doesn't have that as an expectation.

For those who do, however, I honestly believe it's because we made the mistake of thinking that boys will be fine if they're left alone. We underestimated the extent to which they need male role models to guide them into healthy manhood. The ones who didn't have that are now looking for it, and naively thinking they've found it in these toxic figures.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
There is a name for "feminists these days are more interested in getting mad at trans people doing anything" and it is TERF (trans-exclusive radical feminist). I promise you there are many, many, many feminists doing things other than screaming at trans people.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT but it's not "society as a whole" going backwards about women, it's a bunch of misogynist troglodytes.

It sucks that some of them are politicians or people with money and power, and that bigotry is a shitty "believe one, get ten free" situation where they almost never just hate women, when that's bad enough. But instead it's women and poor people and immigrants and BIPoC and LGBT+ people and and and...

Regressive shitheads want to treat others like shit, news at 11.

What is the point of this?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Why even post this bullshit here?

Re: What is the point of this?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Why is anon even watching Andrew Tate?

Re: What is the point of this?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
God forbid women do anything.

Re: What is the point of this?

(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
Sometimes it's good to know what kind of hot garbage is being spewed elsewhere on the internet, because:

1) so you know that anyone who likes Andrew Tate has the appeal of raw sewage
2) you can recognize, identify and disdain the source for all those toxic ideas

And if you don't want to know these things, might I suggest scrolling faster past the threads you find objectionable? Really works a treat.

Re: How to be a whore

(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
I was kinda hoping this would include some useful tips now that CraigsList is down. Lol.

But anyways: We need always remember that history is not a perfect slope from "Bad Old Days" to "Enlightened." There are always going to be absolute shitty humans trying to make the world worse.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 02:15 am (UTC)(link)
Surely there are fb groups that took its place. Or wherever people hang out now.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
neuter the animals please.

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[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2023-11-16 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
The hell's wrong with art exhibits?

Also I kinda fear what these sorts might say if I said the male friend I hung out with platonically is my BROTHER. Are women allowed to have relationships with male siblings and family members?

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
I suspect it comes from men who cannot imagine hanging out with or being nice to any woman they're not interested in fucking, so they assume that women must be doing the same.

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[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2023-11-16 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah it's such a weird point of view.

Reminds me of someone's tweet about how they grew to hate women bc they would just see random women and think of all the guys they've fucked and how angry it made them. I was like.... "the fuck" That's not just a red flag its a whole parade of em.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 10:47 am (UTC)(link)
Combined with the idea that women are sex/breeding objects, so we have no interests outside of men, sex (if we're bad), or marriage and children (if we're good).

A woman can't be interested in art, she's only at an art exhibit if some guy invited her (because he wants to fuck her). A woman can't just like fancy cars, and she certainly can't afford one, she can only be invited into one by a man who wants to fuck her.

Then combine this with these peoples' obsession with wealth - THEY can't understand interests and hobbies outside of showing off how rich they are. Some woman asked one tate-copycat why travel was bad and he was all 'WHO IS PAYING FOR YOUR PRIVATE JET AND YACHTS???" (answer, of course, is a man she's fucking). But like, these people do not think people travel except to show off wealth. They can't imagine a woman, or anyone, buying a ticket on a commercial airline to go somewhere because they'd actually enjoy being there.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 12:20 pm (UTC)(link)
LMAO at that guy thinking everyone who travels is on a private jet or a yacht.

These shitheels don't live in anything resembling reality.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 05:51 am (UTC)(link)
Regarding the last point, I am always surprised somehow by it when people suggest that friendship = infidelity when it comes to straight women having male friends and straight men having female friends. I'm bi and so is my partner, should we have no friends at all then?

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 12:24 pm (UTC)(link)
These types usually see bi people as incapable of being faithful and won't date them.

On another note, though, a lot of them think having female friends when you're a woman in a relationship is infidelity, too. To them, a woman's entire life is supposed to revolve around her jailer husband.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 02:57 pm (UTC)(link)
As an aroace queer woman, it's like...wow. I don't get The Straights. People just want to live their lives.

To expect anyone to live by a certain set of standards with no nuance (unless they apply it to themselves or to win the argument against anyone else pointing at the holes in their way of thinking) must be so exhausting and be/feel so self defeating.

And without reflection, they will blame the rest of society for how they feel.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 06:20 pm (UTC)(link)
This isn't 'the straights' though. This is a dangerously influential misogynist.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Personally, I don't get aroace people taking the example of the biggest, most repugnant assholes and applying that to all sexual people.

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(Anonymous) 2023-11-16 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Right? You would rightfully side-eye anyone using Dahmer or Gacey as an example for all gay people. Yikes.

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