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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:59 am (UTC)(link)This is exactly it. Sexism is when when people decry a female character for being terrible and badly written, yet when a male character displays the exact same traits, somehow they're interesting and nuanced.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 04:26 am (UTC)(link)When a women is badly written, she's often the only major female character in the canon, and the others are either nonexistent or too minor to expect any characterization. She is also therefore The Woman, who stands for all women and the writer's ideas of womanhood all rest on her.
You cannot say misogyny exists in the world and simultaneously deny that this misogyny doesn't seep into our fiction. It's also ludicrous to imply that male writers are less misogynistic than female consumers and that the misogyny usually lies in female consumers criticizing female characters who are in fact wonderful products of misogyny-free writing.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 04:49 am (UTC)(link)But what's being brought up here is not badly written male characters being ignored; it's badly written male characters getting accolades.
"You cannot say misogyny exists in the world and simultaneously deny that this misogyny doesn't seep into our fiction."
Misogyny certainly does seep into fiction. But misogyny also colors the way we view and respond to fiction.
"It's also ludicrous to imply that male writers are less misogynistic than female consumers and that the misogyny usually lies in female consumers criticizing female characters who are in fact wonderful products of misogyny-free writing."
This isn't really what's being said. What's being said is that there is a kind of misogyny present in certain female-dominated spaces in fandom that causes male characters to be preferred over female characters, regardless of the quality of the writing. This does not mean that female consumers writ large are more misogynistic than misogynistic male writers. It does mean that, "many female characters are poorly written" is used by some as a way to justify dislike of female characters altogether.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 05:18 am (UTC)(link)Or... that we're saying that the quality of writing for female characters is almost always less than the quality of writing for male characters because of the aforementioned misogynistic society and misogynistic male writers. Just because a male character and a female character appear in the same media doesn't mean they're written to the same quality. But apparently to suggest such a thing is misogyny on my part.
No, it means that "many female characters are poorly written". Full stop.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 07:04 am (UTC)(link)Except that simply isn't true unless all you're consuming is garbage-tier media, and in cases like that the male characters are almost always just as poorly written.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:49 pm (UTC)(link)"Other people have an unconscious bias that comes through in their creative work, but not me."
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)Because it's only women or people in female dominated hobbies and spaces who get called misogynistic for not liking female characters.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)'Fiction has inherent biases but *I* am no mere mortal and am above all of that.'
The sucky reality is that misogyny permeates everywhere in society and yes this does come out in fiction sadly, but this also exists in us too. People in general, not just fans, are so goddamn harsh on female characters that 'overstay their welcome' in any given movie/show or who 'take up too much room'. Female characters have to be excellent and above par for the media in question... but they also can't exist in the narrative too much because THEN she's taking away from the MEN and WE CAN'T HAVE THAT.
How do people not get how absurd that is?
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)We all seek post-hoc justifications for why we like or dislike something, and tell ourselves that our juatifications are more "rational" than other people's. But in reality, we're all reasoning backwards from a set of emotional responses.
That's what makes this such a frustrating discussion. We all start from the assumption that a) we're using logic, and not emotion; and b) that if we're using emotion, our emotional responses are more "pure," less touched by culture than those of our interlocutor.
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 04:53 am (UTC)(link)What... what canons are you consuming that only have a single major female character in them?
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(Anonymous) 2023-11-28 05:00 am (UTC)(link)Also yes, I prefer different traits in male and female characters because there are years of media and different expectations and tropes. So for example I would like male character who runs and cries and is obviously afraid but still is a good person. And I do not care for female character like this.
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