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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-11-28 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6171 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6171 ⌋

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Re: Question for gay/straight people

(Anonymous) 2023-11-29 10:26 am (UTC)(link)
Before I came to terms with/fully comprehended my attraction, I considered myself bi because of course both men and women are objectively attractive! It makes sense to be attracted to them both, why would anyone choose? And tbh, that's still my brain default, such that I'm surprised to discover someone only likes on gender, even though I myself now identify as a lesbian.

What made the difference for me was finally analyzing myself beyond the initial "assessment" (and there was a lot of mental blocks making that step a thing at all). I can see a man is attractive or like his personality/etc, but I can't see /myself/ being attracted to him. The idea of interacting with him is uncomfortable, or the general idea of a future with any given man is unfathomable. It's not so with women--I find myself daydreaming of a future with a woman constantly, because real attraction is more than a checkbox of physical traits (thank you comphet for messing that up in my brain for so long)