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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-11-28 06:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6171 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6171 ⌋

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Re: Question for gay/straight people

(Anonymous) 2023-11-30 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm bi, and confused by the idea that bi attraction is different from straight attraction - but also I kind of get how a person's gender influences attraction. I'm not really attracted to masculinity at all, in men or women. I like women who aren't usually butch, and men who aren't really masculine or gender-conforming.

I get it, because if I think someone is a feminine man, and they turn out to be a butch woman who still has feminine features, I might be less attracted? Maybe because I assume she'll want to be more masculine than I like? But I'm definitely still attracted to women.

Part of it is, I'm a woman and I associate 'masculinity' in a relationship with a woman, with dominance and leadership. I don't want a dominant partner or a leader, but ALSO I just don't really find masculinity attractive. I don't assume all bi people are like me - I've known a bi woman who liked masculine men and feminine women, and was very into gender roles and being submissive with men.

I don't have much experience with nonbinary people, so I can't answer for that.