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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-12-11 06:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #6184 ]


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(Anonymous) 2023-12-12 05:52 am (UTC)(link)
Well... you're making it all about English, my dude.

Why say that "asexual," which uses a prefix meaning "not/without," and which is therefore usually understood to mean "without attraction," is a spectrum that also includes people who experience attraction? We don't say that "without light" denotes a spectrum including spaces with sparse light; we use it to mean "a complete absence of light."

I'm talking about creating, on the one hand, a redundancy in the language; and, on the other, defining "without" as "sometimes with."

All that? Language issue.

Why does, "this person with a slight presence of X trait belongs to the category of people who lack X trait" more accurately capture the human experience than, "this person with a slight presence of X trait belongs to the category of people with X trait?"

Because when it comes to human experience people react to the slightest difference. Our instincts like to have Completely In-Group or otherwise Completely Out-Group. So, if you have someone with the Slight Presence of X Trait, they Do Not Belong to group with Definite Presence of X Trait. They belong with No X Trait, because they're not Completely In-Group which makes them Other. So, socially speaking, they have more in common with the No X Trait group because of how they're treated by the Definite X Trait group.

Also, your light analogy is wrong. We often say that something that is dark is "without light" - but it does actually have light. We just can't see most of the types of light.

We know this because we, um, educated ourselves....