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fandomsecrets2009-08-01 04:17 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2009-08-01 04:17 pm
[ SECRET POST #939 ]
⌈ Secret Post #939 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Secrets Left to Post: 17 pages, 403 secrets from Secret Submission Post #135.
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I admit it may be due to my having grown up in an unusually diverse environment, but I have rarely, if ever, personally witnessed firsthand any significant amount of discrimination from anyone, against anyone. I went to grade school in a place where there was no majority race or color -- there were as many white kids as black, plus Hispanic, Philippino, native African and American, and a significant representation of Russians, because my school was in the same area as the Russian embassy so all the kids who didn't go to private school came to mine. There were at least 2 or 3 Russian kids per grade, per year, though they, along with the Hispanic and other non-English-speaking kids spent half the day in the ESL program. There were also representatives of multiple religions -- Christians were the majority, but four of my best friends were Jewish, one was Pagan, and two were Muslim. Three of my best friends had severe physical disabilities -- one deaf, one epileptic with a learning disorder, and one with Lupus. My church also encouraged diversity and the idea that all members of a society should help and be helped so that everyone is able to be in the place that is best for them. Youth Group teens volunteered to assist and look after disabled children for an hour and a half so their parents could attend adult-oriented services, and they had a summer camp for kids from underprivileged parts of the city, which my sister and I both volunteered at as counselors. I live in a city OBSESSED with pushing equality for men and women and persons of all races. My parents never espoused any political views to me or my siblings, but my father was a registered Independent, my mother was registered Democrat but only, she told us, so she could vote in primaries. My mother always had a job and by the time I was 11, she was the owner and President of her own business.
And yes, I HAVE absolutely seen people of all of these groups display bigotry against others, but only on an individual basis. The only time I have ever seen a GROUP of people practicing and preaching discrimination against another group was when I went to a school run by Opus Dei... which, if you've ever read the DaVinci Code, should come as no surprise whatsoever. And even THEN, while I could understand the children mimicking their parents, by senior year none of them were so sheltered that they couldn't understand the problems with their own teachings. To continue to follow them was a choice most of them made with full knowledge of what they were doing. Even as a sexuality-minority, I've never felt persecuted -- I've only understood, as I have since I was a child, that there is a time and a place to tell people that or anything else about yourself. No one needs to know your salary, your mother's maiden name, your hobbies, the size of your pants, the kind of computer you use, how often you shower, the name of the god you worship (or don't), or who you're sleeping with.
So all the issues I've ever been made aware of were purely on a theoretical basis, and I certainly never heard any of the jargon for it. I STILL can't quite figure out why it is NECESSARY to use difficult-to-define words like "privilege" when more people could understand and contribute to discussions about inequality if the issues were presented clearly and directly, without all these subtleties in meaning which you apparently need to have taken a sociology class to figure out. Refusing to use the simplest language possible and then refusing to explain to people what they cannot understand without help is in itself a form of discrimination which I see almost DAILY spread over El Jay as if there's some kind of special brand of sympathetic humanity that is a Secret Clubhouse you can't get into unless you figure out the passwords for yourself.
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Your icon fucking ROCKS.