*dies* Yeah, I know what you mean. When people are all, what, you're bi? They expect me to be like, all oooh fashion and lispy and like whee feminine stuff and I'm like uhh, please don't hug me or ask me about showtunes or something... Not that it's bad for someone to be that way! Just like, it's not for me, and it gets annoying that people start expecting that.

Thing is, from what I hear (from guys I know that actually are active in the gay scene unlike me), there's a lot of pressure to be that way just to fit in (seriously, one guy made me like, help him practice his lisp and I was like wait why do you WANT to do this?). I don't know, I kind of just try to avoid all scenes. >>"