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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-05-03 07:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #6328 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6328 ⌋

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02. [SPOILERS for Civil War (2024)]





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03. [SPOILERS for Ghost of Tsushima]




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04. [SPOILERS for Detective Conan]
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05. [WARNING for discussion of sex with a minor/statutory rape]




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06. [WARNING for discussion of domestic violence]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of JKR/transphobia]




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(Anonymous) 2024-05-04 09:54 am (UTC)(link)
This definition of transphobia is now making anyone who cares about biological women's rights to safe spaces a transphobe. The word is losing all meaning.
You don't want a biological male and his penis in a women's only changing room? Transphobic.
You don't want to play against a rugby team with two transwomen and get badly injured? Transphobic.
You don't think saying you're a woman and doing nothing to alter your body in any way and using that identity to barge into female spaces - not just toilets but domestic refuges - is questionable at best? Transphobic.
You don't think 6 six year olds should be taught they can change into the opposite sex? Transphobic.
You call a biological man 'he' and not 'they'? Transphobic.

We're now at the stage of people saying "If I'm transphobic, so what?" because the pendulum has swung too far and it's going to hurt a lot coming back much harder than it needed to.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2024-05-04 10:06 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, actually. Every single one of those is transphobic. Also, gender and sex are not the same thing, so yes, biological sex and someone's gender can differ. Emphasizing someone's biology over everything else is transphobic.

And frankly, as a cis woman, I find it insulting to be defined by my biological parts too. I am more than just my sex organs.

(Anonymous) 2024-05-04 10:37 am (UTC)(link)
DA
At least half of those things are not transphobic.
And it's funny you bring up that you don't like being defined by your biological parts because that's exactly what's happening in a lot of "gender inclusive" discourse. Women keep disappearing in discussions about medical issues, getting replaced by terms like "uterus havers" or "people who menstruate" (just two examples) while nothing at all of the sort happens in regards to men's health issues.

(Anonymous) 2024-05-04 03:26 pm (UTC)(link)
1. I've likely shared a changing room with a transwoman in my lifetime, I have neither been able to tell or been bothered by it, the only way you could tell is if you did a genital check on every person going inside, which is far worse and more invasive! And if you think 'well it will only catch the OBVIOUS men' there are cis women who look like men, they will and do get punished the most by these absurd rules even though they belong in these places by the assertions of people like you. But those women getting hurt or targeted is fine and dandy, what a wonderful pro-woman person you all are.

2. I love the idea you have that women's rugby is somehow not just as violent as the mens, transwomen being on those teams is not going to make is more dangerous.

3. Public toilets are public, I've had cis-men come into women's toilets before because the men's was out of use or just full, this was not a remote issue. Also I'm form the EU a lot of our toilets are unisex with urinals and some stalls, it's not an issue.

4. Six year olds are being taught that if they don't feel like themselves it's okay to explore that, some of them may realise their trans, other may realise they're cis or something in between

5. We should call anyone what we like then? Are you a cis woman? I'm going to call you he from now on just because I don't personally feel like I should be calling you she, and you can't complain about it because it's what I want to do and feel I should call you. Your feelings don't matter and this shouldn't upset you on any level because it's just a word. Even though calling people by preferred names/pronouns isn't hard and plenty of people with nicknames or names they like better get called what they want. My uncle doesn't like his chosen name, he uses his second as his first, but I guess I should call him by his first because 'that's what he was originally called'.

A lot of what you seem to be so up in arms against is just basic human decency that I'm sure you're all too happy to do for cis people, but when it comes to trans people suddenly becomes just too much! And too hard! And too difficult!! Which sure is a way of telling me how utterly inconsiderate you are, what a badge of honour anon.