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(Anonymous) 2024-05-26 01:40 am (UTC)(link)This is the one time I've ever seen someone ACTUALLY recommend starting with tCoM, but under the circumstances you are correct.
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(Anonymous) 2024-05-25 05:32 am (UTC)(link)Seconded.
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(Anonymous) 2024-05-25 12:04 am (UTC)(link)Personally I would love if we had more media in which male characters specifically were depicted as being far more inhibited by fear. Give me male good-guy characters who are "chicken"! Not just "Oh no, the villains are going to harm a beautiful, defenseless woman I care about; I feel noble, manly fear for her well-being!" No. Give me men who are scared for themselves.
I haven't finished watching Fallout yet, but I really liked the moment early on where one of the male characters admits to his sister that he's not going with her on a probable suicide mission to look for their dad, because he's "not brave enough." That was great. We very rarely get to actually see genuine fear (the kind that undermines resolve and intention) from important male characters who aren't villains, jokes, or afterthoughts, and I wish we got to see it more.
But I do think there's a distinction between a character showing fear, even to a point where they freeze or flee, and a character who lacks the inner strength to risk anything, period. Personally, it's only the latter type of character I would consider a coward. The former type of character may see themselves as a coward, and/or be perceived by others as a coward, but I wouldn't call them a coward. They're just a person reacting to fear in a very natural, human way.
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and i would love it if more dudes were afraid and avoidant in more dramatic scenarios.
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(Anonymous) 2024-05-25 04:51 am (UTC)(link)I think a lot of people would call someone who panics and runs from conflict a coward. Even if they aren't thinking about risk. Or so afraid they aren't thinking at all. Or even if they're literally, physically paralyzed with anxiety about something or around people, especially in a time or circumstance where things like anxiety disorders aren't known about.
We could argue the meaning of "true cowardice" and "true bravery" all day, but when you look at what gets people called cowards, it's mostly about behavior - fled from a battle, ran away to avoid making a decision, hid to avoid talking to someone - and not what they were thinking at the time.
Personally, I think it's difficult to talk about a lot of fear responses in terms of what people are "willing" to risk, because that requires being able to sit and logically think things through and decide upon a course of action after weighing benefits and drawbacks, and you can't do that if you're like, a panicked teenage conscript in WWI fleeing a battlefield who is 100% not thinking at the time about whether it's moral or worth the risk to abandon his mates - no time to think, just fucking bombs, run! Then having to deal with the fallout and survivor's guilt of that, and realizing that none of it was particularly conscious, and he'd probably do it again if it came to it.
I mean, I'd read a story about that.
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