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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-05-28 07:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #6353 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6353 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-05-29 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
God if only it was just online. Trans women especially just won't take no for an answer sometimes.

(Anonymous) 2024-05-29 07:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Mm. I keep seeing articles about trans women throwing fits over not being allowed into lesbian dating scenes and trying to get the courts to force the issue.

The one I still can't believe was that Canadian trans woman who wanted punitive damages against local women who offered genital waxing services to women as a home business, but refused to do Jonathan/Jennifer Yanis' balls and penis. The claim was that, as a trans woman, it was "by definition" a pussy. AFAIK, this individual was not post operative and had never taken hormones. And they lost Canada's first major suit alleging transphobic discrimination.

(Anonymous) 2024-05-29 07:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Even other trans people can't question this. Every trans friend I have thinks JY is just an opportunistic creep but not even they can say that or else they're "self-hating" or "a pickme". Or they're called a "TERF" even though anti-trans radfems don't take kindly to them either.

>Mm. I keep seeing articles about trans women throwing fits over not being allowed into lesbian dating scenes and trying to get the courts to force the issue.

Bleh. I've tried talking about this too and was just told it's not even happening, even though I've gotten shit when trying to date because I'm not sexually compatible with or attracted to AMAB people. (Not ace, so just a solely romantic relationship won't work with me.) I know there are WLW who are totally open to dating transwomen but it feels like my politics are assumed despite being a generally respectful person about their gender.

(Anonymous) 2024-05-29 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
That sounds rough. Characterizing someone who acts like that as an opportunistic creep seems like the best way of going "this is not behavior the community endorses or will put its reputation on the line for." It's not betrayal to expect people to show a reasonable amount of consideration for others.

I'm sorry you've been told the other (social pressure to date trans women when you just aren't interested) isn't happening, even though it's happening to you. I think it's gotten easier to prove to people over time as some of these individuals who think it's discriminatory not to sleep with penis-havers try to get courts to punish lesbian groups. Win or lose, it's making their attempts and goals a matter of public record.