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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-07-11 05:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #6397 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6397 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
You must not know what dating is like these days for straight women.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I know what dating is like for straight women who aren't attracted to losers.

Y'all have something broken in you that makes you choose these guys.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
This sounds very victim-blamey. Do you understand that not every guy presents as a loser upfront? Many guys try to put their best foot forward... for a while. It might take time for the mask to slip or for them to decide that they're in a relationship, so time to stop putting effort into being that sweet guy their girlfriend thought she was dating. That's why the vetting process is long and painful.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
^ This. ^

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
Dating a loser doesn't make anyone a victim. Being a loser isn't abuse. Stop watering down terms.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
Fuck off, moid.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-11 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt

I do, but you know the saying "if everyone around you is an asshole, then..." ?

Sure, sometimes you are indeed surrounded by assholes. But when someone is making these types of statements with zero self-reflection, and with no curiosity about the common denominator in these situations... IMO they start to lose credibility.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

I wish this facet got brought up more often.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but yeah, I bet you're right. I'm ace and not interested in dating at all, but I hear stories from female friends about the dating app adventures and yikes. The anecdotes range from funny to downright scary, when men get angry and threatening because they don't get what they want. Makes me glad I'm happy as a single person.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
I'm ace and from the stories I've heard, I'm just as glad I'm not interested in women.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 06:29 am (UTC)(link)
As a bi woman, I can say I have had worse experiences with women than I have with men.

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 03:14 pm (UTC)(link)
How were your experiences with women worse, if you don't mind sharing?

(Anonymous) 2024-07-12 06:31 am (UTC)(link)
NA - I'm aroace, and if I could pick, I'd pick female-attracted every day of the damn year.