[ SECRET POST #6397 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6397 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It's hypothetical, but I've read a lot of advice columns and reddit posts and there's an alarming amount of women who write in looking for help on how to deal with a male partner who doesn't clean his own butt properly for whatever reason. Most of the time, they think it's just not necessary and that leaving poop stains on stuff is normal and their girlfriend/wife is overreacting and being ridiculous. Occasionally it's a weird thing, like they don't want to touch their own butthole because it's dirty in the figurative sense as well as the literal sense. A significant part of the problem is that it's incredibly embarrassing to be confronted with an accusation that your personal hygiene is subpar in a gross, disgusting way, so people get defensive about it and try to deny it or rationalize it or try to shoot the messenger.

I agree that for me, that would be a serious problem. But compared to other issues like domestic violence, cheating, having a major addiction, etc. etc. a dirty butt isn't quite so bad. And after all, it's minor in the sense that it can be addressed with 1) a better quality diet and 2) more thorough cleaning. You can't really say that about the other dealbreaker type problems in a relationship.

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How do you get to marriage with someone who doesn't wash his own asshole and think "this is fine" all along the way to get to that point??

[(Anonymous)]

For a lot of them, it's not even that they think cleaning their ass is dirty, it's that they think it's gay.