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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-28 06:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #6445 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6445 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-08-29 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, they act like there's not a wide range within allosexuals and that anyone who's not hypersexual must be asexual, but that's not how it works.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-29 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone who is active in asexual spaces, while I assume you are not: literally nobody does this anymore. You're describing something that went out of fashion at least 10 years ago. On the random occasion that one does this now, they get a talking-to from everyone else. It was popular behavior back when asexuality first went semi-mainstream, but people learned better because of, gasp, education about what asexuality actually is -- something that you, ironically, seem to want swept under the rug, even though it benefits you as an allo as well.

(Anonymous) 2024-08-30 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
I am not allo, I'm asexual, and you're right, I'm not super active in asexual spaces currently because I got tired of that behavior. But I've seen it as recently as a couple months ago, not ten years. It's good to know there are some places where it doesn't happen. And I don't know how I'm wanting to sweep education of asexuality under the rug when I'm trying to point out what asexual originally meant. If people that love sex want to call themselves asexual, ok, fine, I don't understand why, but I'll give you that. But it shouldn't be the default and there are plenty of places where people act like it is.