[ SECRET POST #6469 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6469 ⌋

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Re: Seats as surfaces

[(Anonymous)]

I can get the annoyance even if I don’t relate to the cause. It’s extremely common to set things on seats *shrug*

Honestly if he hates folding the laundry in the bedroom, find someplace else. Or set up a surface in the bedroom suitable for folding. I personally detest folding clothes on the bed because it’s a soft, billowy surface. So I fold on the dining room table because it’s the perfect size. But I also have a clean clothes hamper in the laundry room because about half the time I won’t be able to fold right when the stuff comes out of the dryer.

His attitude does seem like shit so maybe there’s something more below the surface for you guys. Or it could just be that he sucks verbalizing his thoughts and feelings. My husband does because he was raised that way. But after a couple decades together, I can figure out enough to prod him into sharing and talking it through. “Is it this?” “Yes.” Or “no, not even close.” Or, “not really but kinda related…” it can get annoying sometimes but usually it doesn’t bother me because we’re still talking stuff through together instead of arguing. And because we’ve been doing it for a few years now, we don’t have to do it as often, he’s gotten much better.

We also learned how to compromise. After many years of rental houses, we finally own our own home. And we agreed from the early days that we’d make it however we like regardless of convention and love everything about it. So when we bought a place that could fit the game room we’d always dreamed of having but it came with a ginormous master bedroom, we put the game room stuff in there. It looks bizarre and we love it! Point being, arranging the house to fit the family instead of forcing the family to fit the house might be the way to go. If he would benefit from having a table in the master bedroom or somewhere upstairs, then find a spot and put one there. It sounds like it would benefit the whole household.

SA

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Our house *couldn’t fit the game room of our dreams. Stupid phone.