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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-10-12 02:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #6490 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6490 ⌋

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RSD

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
I was going to say, have you explored the concept of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, which is essentially a (usually neurodivergent) traumatic learned reaction to anything that even whispers like it could be a rejection or criticism. Because when we are kids constantly getting social rejections it sucks, and we've learned that when our friends (or "friends") criticize something that they know we do, in front of us, it means we need to stop doing it if we want to keep the friendship. Because people have ended friendships with us for that thing and even less helpful things.

RSD isn't a formal diagnosis, it's an observation from within the neurodivergent community that has proved extremely useful to many of us.

(Likely AuDHD here; diagnosed on the ADHD but not the Au, my dad definitely was autistic but that insight arrived too late in his life to make much of a difference)