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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-10-31 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #6509 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6509 ⌋

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Re: Venting thread- I've been struggling not to hate my husband.

(Anonymous) 2024-11-01 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
Blow up your life. Seriously. He HAS to provide for you guys. Grab your kid(s) and just go. If you can’t leave the house, at least retain the best divorce lawyer in your area before he gets the chance to book them. Either find a new place or let him scramble to find something for himself. The divorce proceedings will force him to be accountable and you get your freedom. You and your kid(s) deserve that.

Re: Venting thread- I've been struggling not to hate my husband.

(Anonymous) 2024-11-01 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
I've thought about it. I'm just wary of how hard it'd be to do this by myself. My earning potential is much lower than his, I'd have to stay with family and I don't want to burden them. I don't know that I trust him NOT to make things difficult. Like not in a malicious, hateful way, but in what is 100% in-character for him: being late, lazy, stubborn, irresponsible, always trying to weasel out of doing what he ought to do and then whining and blaming me for it, etc. That freedom would come at a high cost.

Re: Venting thread- I've been struggling not to hate my husband.

(Anonymous) 2024-11-01 02:21 pm (UTC)(link)
The thing about doing it by yourself is that it will be hard, but it will get easier and better. The best you can hope for in your current situation is that you’ll eventually get numb to it.