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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-10-31 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #6509 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6509 ⌋

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Re: Venting thread- I've been struggling not to hate my husband.

(Anonymous) 2024-11-01 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
You pointing out his flaws is just a wife nagging, a marriage counselor pointing them out is something to listen to. It shouldn’t be that way but it is and not just for men.
The financial fear: in my case, it was because I talked about divorce and he didn’t think I’d ever go through with it. He didn’t think things were that bad. He thought I was exaggerating about hating life and him. He thought I was exaggerating about the effort to do all the yard work and all the housework. I didn’t exaggerate a thing. And I have a debilitating condition that made every second of work 4-5 times harder than it is for a healthy person like him.

Counseling was a wake up call for him. I hate that he needed it and I totally understand your resentment. It shouldn’t be necessary. But sometimes it is.

Re: Venting thread- I've been struggling not to hate my husband.

(Anonymous) 2024-11-01 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
I hate that this is true. I hate that a man would rather listen to a total stranger than the woman he chose to spend the rest of his life with and supposedly loves and trusts. I hate when men fail to grasp how much work their wives are doing and refuse to take their words seriously. This world sucks.