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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-12-09 06:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #6548 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6548 ⌋

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Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Agree to disagree. Being accepted within a peer group that's bigoted isn't the same as privileged on a societal scale, but I'm not here to argue about that, just answering the question of if it's problematic to write (it isn't).

Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
You're ignoring that societal privilege still is in action in societal subgroups. And inside queer communities, there definitely tends to be a "privilege pecking order" as well - it's just a matter of the group in question which ones are the more privileged and which ones aren't.

Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 12:30 pm (UTC)(link)
No, not quite. I've dealt with the intracommunity pecking order before, but the moment I leave queer communities I still have less rights than cishets.

Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Sure, but even there, some very liberal communities are more open to the "traditional" iterations of queerness on account of not understanding how asexuality works.

Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

Totally agree. In my super liberal, ~sex positive~ community gay people are absolutely more privileged than ace people. The person you're replying to can dislike that I'm saying that for their own reasons, but that doesn't change the fact that it's true.

I'm not making a blanket statement or talking about anywhere else (in very conservative, religious communities I'm sure the opposite is true) but where I'm at, people don't care what gender/how many people you're having sex with/what kinks you're into, etc., as long as you're having sex with someone. If you're not, you're "sick", you're "just a prude", there's something wrong with you, you're mentally ill, there's something wrong with your hormones, you were clearly molested as a child, you need help, etc. etc.

In some places it's definitely easier to be gay than asexual, it just is.

Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Dang, mind naming some of these places? Would love to know.

Re: Is this problematic?

(Anonymous) 2024-12-10 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
You're actually asking ayrt to basically doxx themself just because you don't believe them huh.