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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-12-09 06:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #6548 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6548 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-12-22 02:31 am (UTC)(link)

Original sender of the confession here --

Thank you to those who had meaningful, thoughtful things to say (as opposed to the "you're cringe, you're not welcome, you're delusional, you as a trans woman are like a TERF" responses). You gave me a lot to think about. Special thanks to the anon who provided me with the phrase "ideologically anti, behaviorally proship", because I think this language conveys what I, myself, was not able to, even with so many words in the OG confession, lol.

After some reflection and reading the rest of the comments, you're right -- I don't know why I was clinging to the label of "anti" so hard. I suppose it was a sort of spite-based response to seeing fandom spaces casually bashing antis all the time. ("Not everyone who thinks pedophilic and incest fic is wrong is a shit person! See? I don't harass people!") For all my talk of everyone around me being childish and having no nuance, to hold onto such a volatile label out of nothing but spite sure is childish of me, lol.

So, I'm dropping the "anti" label, but I'm not picking up the "proship" label either. I'm just going to be neither one nor the other. Achievement unlocked!: personal growth.