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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-12-30 05:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #6569 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6569 ⌋

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Re: Bizarre things

(Anonymous) 2024-12-31 01:32 am (UTC)(link)

I read an essay today by a man who was tracing his sociopolitical development to the experience of giving cunnilingus to a Jewish woman. He credits it with helping him to overcome his low-level anti-Semitism. He then goes onto posit whether a borad anti-racist strategy might need to involve men giving head to women of different races.

Interestingly, he notes that the reverse can be expected to happen with fellatio, and that men who feel inadequate or who harbor racial resentments should not receive head from women of races other than their own.

He definitely sees oral sex as inherently hierarchal and involving a power imbalance, which isn't totally off the mark. But it's downright weird (and self-indulgence) how he got from there to, "we can either increase or decrease levels of racism depending on the type of oral we encourage."

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Re: Bizarre things

[personal profile] tabaqui 2024-12-31 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
That...is certainly a take....

Re: Bizarre things

(Anonymous) 2024-12-31 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
That's weird for sure.

I kind of see his point about getting head from his perspective, but also, heyyyy, we're told giving head to a man isn't degrading but he seems to maybe think head is putting yourself in a degrading position (instead of sharing a fun experience getting a partner off/driving them nuts in a pleasurable way). Hmm.



Re: Bizarre things

(Anonymous) 2024-12-31 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
I find people who painstakingly explain how their kink is not a kink to be really funny. So thank you for sharing.