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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-10-06 05:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #1005 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1005 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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102.
[Albert Ellis/Carl Rogers]


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103.
[Soul Eater]


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104.
[Loony Toons]


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105.
[Glee]


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106.
[Dreamcatcher]


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107.
[Dollhouse]


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108.
[Air Force One]


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109.
[Folklore]


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110.
[Final Fantasy 9/Phoenix Wright/Mega Man/Gurren Lagann]


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111.
[Patrick Stewart/Jeremy Northam/Hugh Laurie/Cary Grant]


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112. [too big]


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113.
[07-Ghost]


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114.
[Supernatural]


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115.
[Charm School]


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116.
[Avatar]


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117.
[Bosom Buddies]


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118.
[Fame]


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119.
[X-Factor]


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120.
[Kev and Alice]


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121.
[Tsubasa: Reservoir Chronicle]


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122.
[Scott Gairdner]


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123.
[Zero Punctuation, Guitar Hero World Tour, Neon Genesis Evangelion]


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124.
[Questionable Content]


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125.
[Homeward Bound]


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126.
[Supernatural/Pita-Ten]


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127.
[Lena Headey]


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128.
[Veronica Mars]


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129.
[Last Days, deleted scene]


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130.
[Supernatural, The Amazing Race]


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131.
[The Dresden Files]


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132.
[Song of Ice and Fire]


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133.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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134.
[Supernatural]


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135.
[Juno]


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136.
[Elijah Wood]


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137.
[Life on Mars]


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138.
[Days of Our Lives]


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139.
[Good Omens]


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140.
[The Mentalist]


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141.
[Supernatural]


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142.
[Lie to Me]


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143.
[Supernatural]


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144.
[Burn Notice]


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145.
[Fullmetal Alchemist]


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146.
[3rd Rock from the Sun]


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147.
[Supernatural]


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148.
[Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog]


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149.
[Song of Ice and Fire]


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150.
[Gyro Gearloose/Uncle Scrooge]


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151. http://i37.tinypic.com/acwnrc.png
[porn... I think?, A Mate]


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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
175. http://i36.tinypic.com/amwjkm.jpg

(Anonymous) 2009-10-06 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Anon~! You shouldn't feel bad! You can still love fandom, but right now you're experiencing a whole new part of life for the first time! It's important that you enjoy it! Don't feel bad, just enjoy the happiness you have. You can still love fandom, even if it's not as big a part of your life at the moment as it was before.

I...I've never had a boyfriend, so I'm happy for you, even if I don't know you. 8) (That's not a weird thing to say, is it...?)

(Anonymous) 2009-10-06 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
SOLUTION: Get boyfriend into fandom.

[identity profile] jessicamariek.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
This. It's a lot of fun to have one more thing we can share. :D

[identity profile] atelierlune.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
This.

[identity profile] radio-nurse.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Then don't leave fandom for real life. Find a balance of the things that make you happy. Just a tip: relationships will take hard work too, so you'll probably want to have your fandom stuff there to relieve stress when you do run into troubles. Best of luck though.

(Anonymous) 2009-10-06 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, sometimes real life intervenes. You're entitled to be happy!

And at least you're not one of those "I got a bf/gf and now I think fandom is fucking stupid and a waste of time and you all should get a life lololol" assholes.

[identity profile] zanzou-chan.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Just as long as you're not ignoring your RL friends (or even important online friends, really), I don't think it's a problem. You'll adjust, or you'll move on, whichever makes you happier. :)

[identity profile] xenafox.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Whatever you do, don't abandon your actual friends for said boyfriend. It feels horrible.

[identity profile] that-evening.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't feel bad, anon. Just because maybe you don't have the time you once had for fandom doesn't mean you have to leave it. You may just want to step back a bit, not have quite as much on your plate, and fit in some fandom time when you can. Do what makes you happy, find a blend of both worlds. :)

[identity profile] scorpiod1.livejournal.com 2009-10-06 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I think as long as you don't abandone your fandom friends (or your real life friends) for your boyfriend, I'm sure you'll be fine. :)

Glad your boyfriend makes you happy, anon!

My advice:

[identity profile] endingonfire.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
!)Ignore school/work

2) Replace school/work time with fandom

3) Use free time to hang with boyfriend and get you sum~

4) ???

5) PROFIT!
thene: Happy Ponyo looking up from the seabed (my OTP should be yours too)

[personal profile] thene 2009-10-07 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
Chill. Have great fun with your boyfriend, and then come back to fandom when the initial excitement has worn off - fandom will still be there <3

Also yes, sharing a fandom with your partner is great, even if he won't read your slashfics.

(Anonymous) 2009-10-07 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
Do what makes you happy. I left fandom during college because RL kept me so busy--and after college, I came back, no problem. Also, my experience is that in the initial honeymoon stage of a relationship, you want to be around your SO all the time, but you'll eventually want more time to yourself again (while still spending a lot of time with your SO). In sum, give it time and see what happens. :)

[identity profile] unsquared.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
Do what feels natural. Don't force yourself to choose one or the other. I'd only sad face if you said you were ditching your RL friends.

[identity profile] frankenshane.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
You just have to find a balance between your relationship, other RL stuff, and fandom time. Hope you can make it all work! :)
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Life comes before fandom

[identity profile] jazzypom.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 08:48 am (UTC)(link)
Seriously. Go out, have fun, be loved. Fandom dynamics will change when you're away, and if you come back and find that you can't hang, find another fandom. Seriously.

Life is now. Fandom? Not so much.

[identity profile] wondersuzan.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 11:02 am (UTC)(link)
Dont be weak.

You dont need him at all.

No-dick is worth giving up fandom, or any other part of your life for.

Put him in his place, and make him accept that he will come after fandom, and if he's not ok with that, tell him to fuck off.

You can be a strong woman, if you want, dont let him make you think otherwise.

OP

(Anonymous) 2009-10-07 11:45 am (UTC)(link)
I can't tell whether you're crazy, stupid, a troll, just plain jealous, or some kind of combination of all three.

Re: OP

[identity profile] dwinghy.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a troll. A rather tiresome, one-note troll at that.

Re: OP

[identity profile] wondersuzan.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 05:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, Tiresome, thats that thing like being called a troll whenever I have somthing to say, right?

Yeah, fuck you.

Re: OP

[identity profile] wondersuzan.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 05:39 pm (UTC)(link)
(pst, that was 4 things)

Or possibly option 5 Im a feminist who doesnt want you to throw away your life and your sence of self to a worthless dick who will rape and defile you at the first chance he gets.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) - 2009-10-07 21:36 (UTC) - Expand

Re: OP

(Anonymous) - 2009-10-07 23:08 (UTC) - Expand

[identity profile] ravenery.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 01:51 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL. Fandom is more important than her boyfriend?
Thanks for making me laugh.

[identity profile] wondersuzan.livejournal.com 2009-10-07 05:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Lol, a male is more important than anything else.

Thanks for making me cry

(no subject)

(Anonymous) - 2009-10-07 19:58 (UTC) - Expand

(Anonymous) 2009-10-07 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, because it takes one a strong, empowered, independent woman to let some troll/pseudofeminist on the internet figure out her priorities for her.