Thank you for generalizing those of us who want a seme as not having a spine. Some of us feel rather irritated to be lumped in with the whiny, weepy, stereotypical ukes. Some of us really do have the ability to stand up for ourselves, and think for ourselves, and generally be self-sufficient. And to have you tell those of us who are normal, functional human beings who just happen to like those people with a seme-type personality to "grow a spine" is insulting. That's like telling someone who has a preference for blondes over brunettes or people with a sense of humor over people who are serious to change some nonexistent character flaw that makes them like that sort of thing.
In short, it's a preference, get over it, and I hope that someone tells you that something you like is wrong so that you'll know how it feels.
Sincerely, Lizzie One of the aforementioned insulted people who prefers someone with a stronger personality.
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Thank you for generalizing those of us who want a seme as not having a spine. Some of us feel rather irritated to be lumped in with the whiny, weepy, stereotypical ukes. Some of us really do have the ability to stand up for ourselves, and think for ourselves, and generally be self-sufficient. And to have you tell those of us who are normal, functional human beings who just happen to like those people with a seme-type personality to "grow a spine" is insulting. That's like telling someone who has a preference for blondes over brunettes or people with a sense of humor over people who are serious to change some nonexistent character flaw that makes them like that sort of thing.
In short, it's a preference, get over it, and I hope that someone tells you that something you like is wrong so that you'll know how it feels.
Sincerely,
Lizzie
One of the aforementioned insulted people who prefers someone with a stronger personality.