Thanks. I did absolutely read it as snark, but I trust you.

Thing is tho, I don't think it's empathy. I think it's just me letting my own guilt silence me. It's probably a phase. Like there's always been the nagging voice of "just don't" but then I tell myself "No, it's ok because they're being whatever, let 'em have it."

But now I'm finding myself listen to the nagging feeling more, I don't find that I have much to say.