When I was actively engaging in anal sex, I had to learn how to douche and use enemas beforehand. Anal sex is fun but it's also, ahem, a big pain in the ass and I got tired of it. Why on earth would I want that kind of tedium described in a sex scene. Fanfic writers need to not be so uptight about "writing anal sex correctly"!
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When I was actively engaging in anal sex, I had to learn how to douche and use enemas beforehand. Anal sex is fun but it's also, ahem, a big pain in the ass and I got tired of it. Why on earth would I want that kind of tedium described in a sex scene. Fanfic writers need to not be so uptight about "writing anal sex correctly"!