ext_82219 ([identity profile] shahni.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-04-15 04:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #100 ]


⌈ Secret Post #100 ⌋

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- HAPPY 100TH POST FANDOMSECRET-ERS~ :D

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Re: #5

[identity profile] rainfalldreams.livejournal.com 2007-04-18 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
No one cares and yet you feel the need to comment.

At what point did she specifically claim her interpretation was better, and, even if that was the case, how does that justify singling her out and upsetting her? This hasn't been a "discussion".

The point is that role-playing isn't and will never be important enough to directly hurt someone.

Re: #5

(Anonymous) 2007-04-18 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
No one's insulting her, only saying she was once a horrible RPer and made some bad decisions, a fact which she admitted to, which people agreed to, which she stated again, which people agreed to again, which she stated again, which people agreed to again while being confused as to why she kept saying it over and over when everyone knew that in the first place, (and both of you seem to be stating repeatedly for some reason, okay, everyone gets it, that was the original point in the first place).

If it's not important, why is she getting hurt over it?

Re: #5

[identity profile] rainfalldreams.livejournal.com 2007-04-18 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Would you enjoy being told you're horrible at something, particularly by someone/people who aren't necessarily better than you, and in this manner (in a community through anonymous comments)? Being hurt by something fairly trivial isn't the same as hurting someone else over it. When it looked as though it was being taken personally (understandably so considering the way it was handled), there was no reason to continue.

I've said all that I needed to for the sake of a friend and my own peace of mind.

Re: #5

(Anonymous) 2007-04-19 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I doubt that anyone who wasn't "better than her" would have the balls to go ahead and say that she was worse than them because they'd have no right to do so and they'd know it.

Both of you are just repeating what we know and have heard already, so there's really no point in continuing when that's settled. Move along, nothing more to say, except that perhaps the lesser you say, the lesser you'll find yourself out of things to say.