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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-10-29 07:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #6872 ]


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(Anonymous) 2025-10-30 10:47 am (UTC)(link)
Same. My sister calls women "females" and yes, she's a conservative fundie Christian Pick Me with a conservative fundie Christian husband.

I always feel so uncomfortable when she spouts off about women being submissive and following men's lead.

I just...I can't convince her to face her own internalized misogyny. It's always somehow a woman's fault. If she gets hurt or abused, she did something to deserve it. And I guess she can't see that she does that to herself so it makes her angry other women get hurt like her. She also gets angry when women get divorced or try to hold their abusers accountable. It's so exhausting seeing the mental gymnastics she goes through to place blame on a woman or girl somehow, and I'm just on the side listening to her BS.

And I know not to push against her POV too much. She uses those opportunities like a debate bro. It's not about the nuance of hearing other people's perspective. It's about weaponizing people's words against themselves so that she wins the arguments therefore her beliefs are "the truth".

It's more effective to let her rattle off her nonsense and eventually see her words come back to bite her in the ass.