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Re: What's a ship/character you love, but the majority of fandom interprets them differently than yo
Re: What's a ship/character you love, but the majority of fandom interprets them differently than yo
Sam on the other hand is definitely dominant.
Re: What's a ship/character you love, but the majority of fandom interprets them differently than yo
Re: What's a ship/character you love, but the majority of fandom interprets them differently than yo
(Anonymous) 2025-11-06 03:29 am (UTC)(link)In one fandom, my fave (and half of an OTP) VERY clearly reads to me as a bottom, and COULD be vers where bdsm is concerned but is at least SOMETIMES dom-leaning. So I really can't win. Either he becomes a Manly Man Top in ways that are wildly OOC even outside of the bedroom, or he's the subbiest sub ever to exist, which... isn't really how he advertises himself.
I mean, some of this is that a LOT of fanwriters are not themselves gay men, so they assign 'top' and 'bottom' as like... personality traits, rather than looking at the same signalling that I'd look for if I was the type of person who went to clubs/bars, so it's kind of incomprehensible to me if I'm watching a TV show and I see a guy present himself with a lot of focus on his crotch (flashy belt buckles, legs spread wide when seated, thumbs in belt buckles so hands frame The Area when standing) only for fandom to declare this man is a strict bottom. Or to see a guy bent over and all but presenting his ass to or pushing it into the guy he's been managing to look up through his eyelashes at despite not actually being any shorter, and see people say 'Oh, no one has ever seemed more like a top'.
Both these things have happened and it drives me batty, but like... I'm not the fun police, I dunno.
Re: What's a ship/character you love, but the majority of fandom interprets them differently than yo
(Anonymous) 2025-11-06 06:49 am (UTC)(link)I don't tend to like machismo/performative masculinity in any of the characters I ship, top or bottom, but it seems to be an extra hard nope for me when it comes to bottoms/subs. Obviously bottoms and subs IRL can have tons of machismo; it's just not what I'm personally into in fiction is all.
Also, did Cas fall because he pulled Dean out of hell? Or did he fall for a non-Dean-related reason? It's been a really long time since I watched that season. But like, if Cas fell for Dean's sake, then...IDK, for my personal sensibilities, he's already committed a tremendous act of emotional/existential submission before we even meet him. I mean, to "give up the lord's grace" or whatever, for the sake of one specific human who should probably be inconsequential to you? That just feels like Downbadism of the highest order.
I guess you could also read it as an act of protection committed by a powerful entity on a powerless entity, and therefore Dom-coded. But to me it doesn't feel like that. It feels like a tertiary angel became fixated on a brave, suffering human and gave up his whole identity as he knew it in order to help him. And then proceeded, in his greatly diminished capacity, to low-key serve and protect said human on earth because...IDK, "It's Dean"?
Re: What's a ship/character you love, but the majority of fandom interprets them differently than yo