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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-11-21 07:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #6895 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6895 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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03. [WARNING for discussion of sexual assault]




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04. [WARNING for discussion of underage]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia]

[National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo)]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of SA/suicide]
























Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #984.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-22 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
There used to be a simple system for it in public spaces:

Poster warns, and other people choose to engage and get upset? Readers are the assholes
Poster doesn't warn, and other people are blindsided and get upset? Poster is the asshole

I can't count how many times I have had to tell people that I am exiting the conversation because they're traumadumping without warning and I was absolutely not ready to handle discussing their experiences at length or how they're projecting it all over whatever character or story we're discussing. But I can count how many times I have received an apology from from those people afterward, instead of them acting like they did nothing wrong. It's 0 times