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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-12-14 03:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #6918 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6918 ⌋

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Re: Advice on distancing from friends

(Anonymous) 2025-12-15 06:09 am (UTC)(link)
You're absolutely right on the mixed bag thing. Some people reappear and become mainstays in your life, and other people just vanish. The Father's Day thing I never quite got over, because she was literally having dinnner a one minute walk away from where we arranged to meet and it would've taken two seconds to say sorry I can't make it, but she just didn't show and I waited for her like an absolute melon for a couple hours surrounded by families coming out for Fathers' Day.

I've just deleted my Facebook, so I guess this could be an opening to say I'll be on Whatsapp/etc if you do want to talk to me, but the fact she hasn't messaged me all year makes me think I'll just stop. I'm just sad. I'm really fucking sad.

Thank you for taking the time, I really appreciate it.

SA

(Anonymous) 2025-12-15 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
This should have been in the comment, but I'm sorry for your loss as well, anon. Losing a parent is something else. I really hope you had/have some good people to steady you through it. x

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2025-12-15 08:24 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I was very fortunate to have people who supported me through that loss, but I know that's not always the case. There are several people here on FS who have lost a parent, so you're not alone.

As for the Father's Day meeting, I would personally find that difficult to forgive. The significance of how much seeing your friend would've meant to you, combined with the low effort on her part. I'd lie awake at night if I'd ever let a friend down that way. I'm very sorry for your loss, and I hope you find friends who can be there for you in the way that you deserve.