[ SECRET POST #6935 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6935 ⌋

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Re: Advice/questions thread

[(Anonymous)]

The problem with not making eye contact and saying vague things like "okay" and "yes" is that this easily reads as someone who's just going "uh huh whatever" and not actually being engaged. People will assume that you're actually focusing on wherever your gaze is directed. The most straightforward fix is to look like you're paying attention by making regular eye contact, positioning your body so it's pointed in their direction, maybe leaning in slightly, nodding when inappropriate. Consider some light body language mirroring.

There should also be a verbal component that shows you're listening: affirm what's been said to you specifically, ask questions that show you're engaged with the topic at hand. You don't want to overdo it, but sometimes repeating a word or phrase that's been said to you shows that you heard it.