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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-02-02 06:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #6968 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6968 ⌋

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Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2026-02-03 05:25 pm (UTC)(link)
DA
People are capable of being scared in the moment of feeling like their safety or comfort was violated, and then later being pissed off and venting with a trusted friend by talking down on the person who harassed them in private. Because that was the only place she could express how she really felt.

What I'm understanding is that (as one example) all parties agreed that Lively asked to be covered during the baby delivery scene. Baldoni and a producer kept trying to talk her out of wanting to be covered up. They then played a video of a naked woman without asking Lively for permission. They then told her it was Baldoni's wife (as if that makes it ok?) when she spoke up and said seeing a naked body made her uncomfortable, ignoring what she said and instead began defending their behavior.

IME if someone keeps ignoring your words of "I'm uncomfortable," they're not safe to be "real" around. If Blake were to tell Baldoni off she'd be put on the record as a bitch/diva or "difficult to work with" or "unprofessional".

Based off their actions, he seems like the POS. They were working and he did all that stuff in front of their coworkers.
She was privately messaging with a friend.

Not saying I find Lively morally superior, but I do see the difference between workplace harassment and private messages between friends.

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2026-02-03 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
SHE LIED. I don't like being lied to. Have a nice day.

Re: SA

(Anonymous) 2026-02-03 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT but I hope (and suspect this is the case) that you don’t have any friends, especially women. But also all other marginalized people. If you do, well, they deserve better. A lot better. Have the day you deserve.