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⌈ Secret Post #6997 ⌋

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Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

[(Anonymous)]

That's a lovely relationship with your mom, I'm envious! While I've traveled with my parents both as a child and as an adult, I wouldn't do so again unless it was really short. They don't like doing research or planning, and if you do it, they'll complain about everything.

Condolences re: your dad. He's not the first man to use child custody disputes as a weapon, and I'm afraid he won't be the last.

Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

[(Anonymous)]

I love traveling with my mom because she plans everything down to the last detail (even rest days)(seriously, she uses spreadsheets) and I have anxiety. So I know I can just sit back and she has everything in hand!

Also, yeah, I knew a whole slew of them because he was a men's rights activist dickhead who went to those conventions where they'd bring their kids as a show piece and then ignore us while they sat around drinking and complaining about how all women are bitches. I've yet to unpack that steamer trunk in therapy...

Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

[(Anonymous)]

LOL, that's me when I plan for vacations - lists and stuff for the itinerary, hotel reservations, maps, tickets bought ahead of time if possible, etc. etc. I leave some flexibility and free time on the day to day stuff, but I don't leave home without having some idea of where I'm staying and how I'm going to get there.

The MRA activists are the pits, honestly. I worked with a few of them when I was younger and they (middle-aged right-leaning white guys, all of them) were so bitter about their divorces and paying child support for, you know, THEIR CHILDREN because they didn't want to give their ex-wife any money at all to punish her for leaving. One guy moaned constantly about how his ex poisoned their teenage daughter against him, and I couldn't help but think, "Really, Dennis? Are you sure she doesn't like you because you're a Bible-thumping bigot with a hang-up about women? Because that's why *I* don't like you."

MRAs are still around, swearing up and down that men get the short end of the stick in divorces because a system largely dominated by men somehow discriminates against them. As an adult, I found out that many men don't fight for custody at all, or only do so because they think it'll get them out of paying child support, or as a big fuck you to their exes. They weren't loving, hands-on fathers prior to the divorce, so naturally primary custody went to the person who was the primary caregiver, not the guy who can't remember his kids' birthdates.