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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-03-13 07:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #7007 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7007 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.
[Whitney Houston]



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02. [SPOILERS for season two of The Night Manager]




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03. [WARNING for discussion of Neil Gaiman, sexual assault/rape]




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04. [WARNING for discussion of JKR, transphobia]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of rape]

























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Might need a warning for super vague mention of CSA?

(Anonymous) 2026-03-16 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
I recently got into a new, reasonably popular ship (let's call it A/B). At first I was really excited. Right up until I realize that the sexual dynamics I had envisioned for A/B are totally incompatible with canon. To make matters worse for me, their canon sexual dynamics are also the only way B is comfortable with sexual intimacy at all, due to his CSA trauma. So unless I want to rewrite the way B is dealing with his CSA, I'm basically stuck.

I wish I could at least talk about this with someone, but everybody seems to love A/B's canon sexual dynamic, and I feel like talking about how I headcanon them differently would not be particularly welcome.

Note: By "sexual dynamics" I don't just mean who tops and who bottoms. It's more than just that.