case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-04-19 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #7044 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.




__________________________________________________



02.



__________________________________________________



03.



__________________________________________________



04.



__________________________________________________



05.



__________________________________________________



06.



__________________________________________________



07.















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 33 secrets from Secret Submission Post #1006.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2026-04-20 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
IME

It's kind of a 2 fold thing.

1) Dom/Sub where there is some age play (daddy/baby girl, for example) is usually most women's introduction to BDSM/sex outside normy expectations

2) a lot of women live lives where they're in the caretaker role; they make the majority of the decisions in their families' lives, wanting to be a sub can be really freeing because you give all the work of decision making and all the labor to get to end are the dom's responsibility.
Most times I assume it's on a subconscious level. People know what they like or want that gets them off but they might not know it stems from parentification where one was forced to grow up too quickly. They were burdened with too many responsibility at too young of an age, and had to leave their childhood/youth earlier than they were prepared for. Age regression in sex can be healing because that is one aspect of their life where they don't have to be the most responsible person. Instead they are the one cared for and catered to.

I try my best not to judge people for their kinks. I have my kinks and I have made some guesses as to why what appeals to me, and I would never tell anyone why I like my kinks. They go in deep into my personal experiences and traumas and lmao I don't need to tell people about them.