[ SECRET POST #7045 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #7045 ⌋

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Comments

[pengilly]

This wasn’t a shot at all proshippers, nor did I ever claim that proshippers "collectively" hate yumeshippers. I was talking specifically about the ones, like OP, who specifically go out of their way to insist that yumeshippers are delusional or hinder fandom, and display hypocrisy in wanting tolerance for themselves while not displaying it to others.

I recognize that most proshippers likely don't care one way or the other. In my second comment I used the phrase "I sometimes saw proshippers there mock yumeshippers", for a reason.

It's nice you were able to block and curate your feed on whatever site you found yourself on. But while you personally may not have seen proshippers making these dunks, I definitely have. And in instances such as those I've seen on fanfic subreddits, I see these fans attempting to paint themselves as the sane/normal ones who know that fictional characters aren't real, versus misguided yumeshippers who think that fictional characters are real, can love you back (and, in being real, presumably be hurt by certain scenarios). I can see why, with that lens, they might think that way of self shippers. Basically anti-puritanism, combined with delusion.

I don't think this is necessarily done out of malice, but in misunderstanding the extent of most self-shipper's fantasies. But it is still ironic that they take it out on an easy target, as you said. It is refreshing to see someone who at least can see the discrepancy.

I will say that more than a few proshippers, in that space, at least, do seem to think they have a shot with normies. I see frequent insistence that being proship is what most people irl align with, because all it means is being against harassment and censorship. (All the while being vague on what counts as harassment and censorship)

Where I suspected OP's logic came from: If there were a group of fans who not only wholeheartedly embraced the cringiest aspects of fandom without even trying to mask it as exploring canon characters, but also supposedly exacerbated other worst parts of fandom morality culture—over-protectiveness of characters, inability to tolerate others' character interpretations, excess concerns with morality...

Wouldn't it stand to reason that their departure might make fandom more palatable for "normies"?

And though I cannot be 100% certain of OP's beliefs, variations of "tell the/learn the difference between fiction and reality", "fiction is not reality" phrase is very frequently used in proship rhetoric, so it did color the post for me.

I see it all the time in bios, as a catch-all retort to disgust at problematic themes (even if the other person was well aware it was fiction, and was more concerned about the implications behind it), to the point that I see it referenced by antis when talking about proshippers. It's not necessarily the sentiment itself, but the phrasing.

Still, I do not know OP, again, so your guess is as good as mine. I'm just saying there is a pattern I've recognized, and it doesn't come from nowhere.

Contributing to it is the odd hate-boner fans here seem to have for yumeshippers (I saw Snapewives brought up here and on the last post referencing selfships, and people on the last post telling OP to seek help due to the selfship itself, as opposed to their excess comparison to others). All the while no one expresses concern or brings up infamous fandom incidents towards people who openly ship things like incest.

When there's a discrepancy like that in a community on a site that generally has a chill "ship and let ship" reputation...you start to connect the dots.