[ SECRET POST #7079 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #7079 ⌋

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Re: Transcript by OP

[(Anonymous)]

"it's easier to parent on your own than with a bad partner. It's easier to only take care of one child, instead of two."

Sad, but true. Even when you don't have kids, having a bad partner is like having a child you didn't sign up for, who isn't going to develop and mature on their own the way a child does. When you're cleaning up messes for two people because your partner doesn't pull their own weight, when you're providing emotional support for your partner but aren't receiving it return... that's a lot of energy drained and it takes a heavy emotional toll.

That's why there are quite a few women who break up or get divorced and are genuinely surprised by how much more peaceful their life is, how much cleaner their homes are, how they've got more energy because they're not constantly pouring it into a bottomless pit, etc.

Re: Transcript by OP

[(Anonymous)]

This is so true. I don't have children with this man THANK GOD!!!!! but I am in a bad relationship that I desperately want out of, and I genuinely fantasize about the peace that I would have being on my own. I do feel like my energy and emotions are constantly drained because I have this deep-seated upset in my life and, even when I'm not actively thinking about it or dealing with it, it's still in the back of my mind, sapping a little bit more of my soul each and every day.

As for why I haven't split up with him, it's a really long story. But basically, we've been together for a long time, he's in a really bad mental health state right now, and a very precarious financial situation. We don't live together (again THANK GOD) but his living situation is not good because of how he has treated his family, who he lives with. Even though I am not happy in this relationship, I still have some kind of love left for him because I can't bring myself to just dump him, especially right now. But I have to start working on my exit strategy because I cannooooot keep going on like this.

Re: Transcript by OP

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I hope you get out soon, regardless of his mental health and his situation. If he's not actively working towards improving both of those things, you sticking around until he's more stable is just wasting more of your precious time and effort on someone who's determined to wallow in misery so long as he's got you for company.

Re: Transcript by OP

[(Anonymous)]

Get working on that exit strategy now, nonny, you can do it! You deserve to be happy and not in a relationship way past its sell by date.

his living situation is not good because of how he has treated his family, who he lives with. Jeez I am so relieved you don't live with him, this doesn't sound good