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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2026-05-26 04:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #7081 ]


⌈ Secret Post #7081 ⌋

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Re: Recovered people-pleasers, how did you work on establishing boundaries with people you love?

(Anonymous) 2026-05-27 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
Did you see OP's comment?

"Asking what I ate once in awhile didn't bother me, that's totally normal and expected, but when it becomes a daily thing, and he's wanting a report of all three meals, it's just wearing my patience down to nothing."

Like, no. Wanting a daily report on all three meals OP ate isn't "a nice chat". That's not normal. He's already bringing up food so often and commenting so frequently on what OP eats or doesn't eat that she's getting twitchy about it. That's also not a nice chat, you know how you can tell? Because OP doesn't enjoy it.

Re: Recovered people-pleasers, how did you work on establishing boundaries with people you love?

(Anonymous) 2026-05-27 08:48 am (UTC)(link)
We can tell, because OP told us! He can't tell if OP keeps up the conversation and never tells him! My partner and I often discuss all three meals, and that's no big deal in itself.