[ SECRET POST #7086 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #7086 ⌋

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Comments

TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

I’m posting this as a reply so it collapses

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

One more level just in case

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

My stepmom died tonight. I’m angry and sad and also feel like I don’t have a right to feel anything at all. I adored her and got along well but never knew her all that well. I feel like I have no right to feel grief because everyone else knew her better. They were only married five years and I’m turning 50 in a month so it isn’t a traditional family dynamic. Idk. I just needed to say this somewhere because she was amazing and now she’s gone and I’m also very worried my dad will die of a broken heart. Two wives in less than ten years and he’s in his 80s…I’m worried. And I feel like I’m not allowed to feel that, either.

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

Not to be "that's normal" and "you have every right to however you feel" but... that's normal, and you have every right to however you feel. If you adored her, then you adored her, and nobody can take that away. You also have the right to worry about your dad for the reasons you stated.

I'm sorry for your loss, and also your dad's.

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

I’m sorry, OP. She sounds like a lovely person. Your grief is valid.

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

You miss her and you grieve her loss. There's no question of having a right to feel grief, people can and should grieve the loss of people they feel sad about regardless of how well they knew them or how close they were. My condolences to you and your family.

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your father.

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

I'm really sorry. You absolutely have a right to feel grief - the problem would only be if you were going around claiming that you have more grief than the people who knew her better and longer, which I'm sure you're not. And you're not blaming her for dying, so, yeah, reasonable to worry about your dad.

Re: TW: Family Member Death

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry, anon. Take it from someone who lost their dad last year - grief doesn't see reason. You can have gotten along shittily with her and you'd still find part of you mourning.

I’m sorry this keeps not collapsing

[(Anonymous)]

I am not thinking clearly and DW is a mess so the post is way late and too few comments I guess. I’m sorry

Re: I’m sorry this keeps not collapsing

[(Anonymous)]

Not your fault, there might just not be enough comments on today's post. (Also DW is being weird. I suspect the beta testing might have something to do with it though I can't say for sure.)