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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-02-24 05:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #1146 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1146 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

101.


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102.
(Oingo Boingo)


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103.
[Syfy's Alice]


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104.
(Kaiketsu Zorro)


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105.
[How clean is your house?]


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106.
[Die Drei ??? / The Three Investigators]


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107.
[Zombieland]


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108.
[Avatar]


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109.
[Pride and Prejudice, 2005 Version]


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110.
[That '70s Show]


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111.
[Misfits]


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112.
[Muse]


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113.
[Knights of the Old Republic II]


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114.
[Girly]


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115.
[One Piece]


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116.
[Kings of Leon]


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117.
[ReBoot]


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118.
[Avatar]


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119.
[Avatar]


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120.
[BtVS]


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121.
[Left 4 Dead 2]


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122.
(Least I Could Do)


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123.
[Detective Conan]


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124.
[The Sarah-Jane Adventures]


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125.
[Hellsing/Bayonetta]


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126.
[Amanda Palmer]


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127.
[The Big Bang Theory]


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128.
(Invader Zim)


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129.
[The Muppets Take Manhattan]


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130.
[Sophie's Choice]


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131.
[Shooting Dogs/Beyond the Gates]


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132.
[Hey Ash, Watcha Playin'?]


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133.
[The Cleveland Show]


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134.
[Hetalia]


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135.
[Iron Man]


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136.
[J.R. Celski]


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137.
[Star Trek XI]


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138.
[Jeremy Abbott]


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139.
[The Dollars Trilogy]


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140.
[Final Fantasy XIII]


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141.
[Fullmetal Alchemist]


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142.
[Dirk Bogarde, Glynis Johns, Anthony Forwood RPS]


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143.
[emilie autumn]


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144.
[Sora wo Kakeru Shoujo]


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145.
[Doctor Who]


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146.
[Nathan Fillion, David Boreanaz]


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147.
[Bleach]


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148.
[Golo Mann]


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149.
[Mr. Keith Olbermann and Dr. Rachel Maddow]


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150.
[Up]


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151.
[Mahou Sensei Negima]


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152.
(Sally Lockhart books)


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153.
[Apolo Ohno]


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154.
[Poupee Girl]


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155.
[Dangerous Liaisons]


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156.
[God Hand]


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157.
[Hustle/Leverage]


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158.
[Deadliest Catch]


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159.
[Durarara!!]


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160.
[NCIS/The Mentalist]


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161.
[Avatar]


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162.
[Naruto]


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163.
[James Dean]


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164.
[Law & Order: Criminal Intent]


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165.
[The Muppets]



Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 159 secrets from Secret Submission Post #164.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 3 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2010-02-25 02:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Really, you'd try to improve her sewing, right there? Right after she hands you the gift? You wouldn't wait a short amount of time, maybe a week or two? You'd do it right there when she hands you the sweater, "nice, but oh here, here and here, it's a little lumpy!" you'd say that while looking her in the eye, after she spent maybe months of effort on that sweater, sewing it for you. You'd say right there, while holding your new sweater, that she needs to improve her sewing (so much so that you're compelled to say something!) and, hey, you'd be more than happy to help her with that!!!

It doesn't matter how you say it, in that moment, that receiving-a-gift moment, responding with anything but gratitude is rude.

You could wait with a sweater, you could bring it up later, "hey I noticed this and this, maybe I could show you some pointers!" but that doesn't work in fandom, generally, unless you know the person. You generally have one moment to respond to a giftfic, a comment box. Using that comment box for concrit, for a giftfic, is rude. It just is. It really, really is. We have literally thousands of other occasions for responding with concrit, a giftfic just isn't one of them, at least not for the recipient.