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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-05-11 08:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1225 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1225 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Anonymous) 2010-05-12 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
I had an online fandom friend tell me they were female after 18 months of talking to them online. The fact she was not who she originally said she was really didn't bother me. The only thing I was slightly irritated at was being outright lied to, as in she told me numerous times she was male and then lied by saying she had never gave a clear answer (as well as getting other mutual online friends to not tell me who she really was, changing gender settings on profiles, etc.).

The fact she was really a she made absolutely no fucking difference to me. It was the fact she told everyone except me from the offset and then, when she did tell me, she did so in such a wanky dramatic way.

If your online friendships are based around fandom then it really shouldn't make a blind bit of difference who you are. If you do want to tell people, maybe talk to the friend you trust the most first. People won't react as badly as you think and if they do, then they're not worth being friends with. Hope everything works out for you. :)