I've had a "friend" like that and it only gets worse. Run, OP, run like the wind. I regretted every moment I stayed "friends" with my abuser -- and that's what this person is, and nobody will get that because people think abuse can only come from parental figures or lovers, but they're wrong. Run!

(I always comment anon at F!S, and for darn good reason, but for this secret, I'm using my name, because it's relevant.)