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fandomsecrets2010-07-18 04:08 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2010-07-18 04:08 pm
[ SECRET POST #1293 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1293 ⌋
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But every time we seem to have compromised, he slips right back into that mode. :\ And it doesn't help that his cousins keep buying him months on that game either when they know as well about the problems we're having. Sometimes it feels like I shouldn't try anymore and I should really end it if he's not willing to at least work with the compromise.
On a lighter note, your Stan Lee icon makes me happy inside. ♥
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Do his cousins dislike you or something? :\ Isn't good if that's the case. If he's not willing to compromise, I'd kick him to the curb, maybe just be friends. I wouldn't bother yelling at him so much about it, even if it is very anger-inducing, but rather stay calm and level-headed if you are willing to talk about ending it if it comes to that. I could see how easy it would be to start shouting my head off as a guy like that and lose patience.
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They keep asking him, "Are you sure it's okay with your girlfriend?" (Though they whine [as 14 year old boys tend to do] that I 'took' him away from WoW) And he just says, "No, but do it anyway. She'll get over it."
And that's when I consider leaving him. :| He's genuinely a good guy and of course I love him to bits. I told him a story about a coworker of mine who's been with her (now?) ex boyfriend for 6 years - all 6 of those years, he was consumed with WoW until one night when she turned off his computer, he threatened (literally threatened) to kill her, his family, and himself.
Over WoW.
Now he just got released from the mental hospital because they found a lobe in his brain that caused him to be a bit more violent than your average male who's been in isolation from actual human contact that wasn't on WoW.
Of course, that's an extreme case. The point of me telling him that is I don't want to wait around until he decides to turn it off.
I don't think he still gets it. His brother hates WoW just as much as I do and I talked to him earlier today, actually, about his game playing.
And it broke my heart that he's willing to spend his entire day off with his cousins instead of me since it'll be the first day off without his subscription. It was only at his brother's suggestion he decided to take me along.
Yeah. ;; /mops up again.
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"Because WoW is totally not a hobby, right?" I tell him. He shuts up. :3
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I just want his attention period. I want to be his girlfriend - who loves him for who he is, not another person who criticizes him.
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Wow. If my fiance did anything like that, he would be in a world of hurt. That is an amazing amount of disrespect he is showing you by not turning down something he knows hurts you.
Have you tried going directly to his cousins and asking them to not buy him game time? It's been a while since I was 14, so I don't know how reasonable they'd be about it, but if your boyfriend is giving them the OK for this so he can call the "it was a gift" defense, then it's the first solution I would go with.
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