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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-07-18 04:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #1293 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1293 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2010-07-19 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'm confused as to why you think this is an asexual problem. a lot of people have absolutely no idea how to flirt/what flirting on, regardless of their orientation. hell, I don't even know how to recognize flirting in people unless cheesy pick-up lines are used. and even if someone thinks you're into them? they ask you out, you say no, explain you don't feel that way, and it's fine. you don't even have to mention you're asexual. it's not like this doesn't happen to everyone at some point or another. they're not going to find out you're asexual and harass/rape you. this...honestly is a problem a lot of people have, not just asexuals. (also, asexuals can flirt--you don't need to have sex if you want to find a partner.)

[identity profile] gethenian.livejournal.com 2010-07-19 05:01 am (UTC)(link)
I'm confused as to why you think this is an asexual problem.

Lack of information/evidence to the contrary.


it's not like this doesn't happen to everyone at some point or another. they're not going to find out you're asexual and harass/rape you.

I know that. I was just trying to dissect possible causes for the fear reaction.


(also, asexuals can flirt--you don't need to have sex if you want to find a partner.)

I know THAT, too -- I'm married. ;)

(Anonymous) 2010-07-19 10:28 am (UTC)(link)
You make the mistake of assuming the antecedent.

'If a then b)' doesn't entail 'if b) then a).' Meaning, if asexuality comes with a set of problems, that doesn't automatically mean that this particular set of problems is always a result of asexuality. Like, all Belgians are Europeans, but not all Europeans are Belgians.