[ SECRET POST #1293 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1293 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I fit into a weird place in the ugly/attractive scale, I think. I've always considered myself ugly and fat but I know logically I must be attractive to some degree, as I have had relationships with guys I consider extremely attractive and was always surprised and incredibly delighted to find out they were into me. But when I'm single I don't feel as attractive (i know, i know, i'm working on that) and acting as though i am is more of a leap of faith than a sure thing, and it doesn't always pay off.
what i'm trying to say is, i sort of identify with both sides, because i know i'm a successful person in the ways this post is talking about, i know i'm fundamentally happy, etc. but i'm also a late bloomer, and i've felt completely socially inept and physically ugly for a lot of my life, and its hard to shake that feeling. and its not like i'm totally beyond that now, there are still many situations where i feel like a rejected outsider because of the way i look and act.
i hope fandom can make you happy enough that you start to consider yourself attractive and successful, anon. it's a struggle but i do believe its something you have to work on yourself rather than choosing to wallow in self-pity. there's a difference between people who have never had to worry about being "pretty" and go through life without a thought to those issues, and people who feel successful and attractive because they have worked hard to get there. you shouldn't resent the latter and i hope you can become one of them, like I am hopefully starting to.

[sara-rojo.livejournal.com]

OP shouldn't resent the former, either. OP shouldn't resent anyone, period. Being pretty is not something to be be resented for.

[(Anonymous)]

No, I agree, I'm just saying I understand the feelings. In a perfect world none of us are bitter or resentful about anything, but it ain't a perfect world.