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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2010-09-11 05:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #1347 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1347 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[identity profile] yukinoomoni.livejournal.com 2010-09-12 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
That's a fantastic point that he had, actually. Poor Aang, holy crap o.o;;.

(Anonymous) 2010-09-12 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
It kind of made me see how tough guys have it sometimes. I know what being raped is like, I know what it feels like to be kissed or touched when I don't want it is like too. And I am pretty aware of what is done without thought to a woman's well-being and what is done simply out of confusion and inexperience. I mean AANG I'm sure didn't even think she would react like that. She never has in the past.

I remember about 5 years ago I had a friend who we went out to dinner almost every week, he was the one I turned to when I needed someone, we held hands when we were out, kissed a few times, but hadn't talked about our relationship. Honestly I had not given much thought to it. One night we ran into some people we knew who had just decided to move in together. We were walking back to the car and talking about how happy they seemed and he said: "Well that could be us." and kissed me. I backed away because it was not wanted and because honestly being confronted that bluntly about our relationship freaked me out. Now, I didn't like him like that and I realized afterward that I probably hurt and confused him far more than that 2 second peck on the lips hurt me.

I'm not saying Aang's actions were right, but I do understand why he did what he did. And while Aang's actions weren't right, I think it's kind of wrong to make Aang a villain in this situation, especially since Katara was hurting and confusing him just as much.

[identity profile] snowdevil-crow.livejournal.com 2010-09-12 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure guys aren't the only ones who have to deal with mixed signals and confusion over where a relationship is at.