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(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 03:30 am (UTC)(link)I'm not sexually attracted to bigger girls. Snooki has a cute face but her body doesn't do it for me. But god forbid I ever say that outloud, for fear of being dogpiled by bigger girls wh think I'm sexist/misongynist/women-hater/etc. God forbid I have a preference in what I find attractive. Jeez.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 03:45 am (UTC)(link)Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 04:29 am (UTC)(link)Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 04:40 am (UTC)(link)Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 04:43 am (UTC)(link)That's women for you though.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 01:30 pm (UTC)(link)First, uh... 'Yes, their lack of pudge shows off their natural skeletal frame, but if she would have a few extra pounds on her...her natural curves would show off soooo much more.
So I don't understand how people think 0-2 sized women are hot. It's like...necro.'
Not one word. Quite a lot of words, and this reads more like 'man, 0-2 sized women aren't hot at all, they're like skeletons and anyone who's doing them must like doing corpses, gross'. It's not just the words, it's the utterly dismissive tone. That's not on.
And then in this comment: 'That's women for you though.'
...Way to generalise, Anon. Way to generalise. ):
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
It's not only women that can find other women being called "skeletal" (or comparing other people finding them to be attractive to be like necrophilia) to be offensive. Do you even realize you just compared a whole bunch of guys who find slender women attractive to necrophiliacs, too? And what are guys that like both? Normal people with a side of necrophilia?
You don't find size 0-2 women attractive. We get it. How could we not get it, with the way you hammered it into everyone's faces? But, you also just insulted a whole fucking bunch of people by phrasing it the way you did, which YOU don't seem to get. Also, your inherent misogyny is showing (yes, women CAN be misogynist!) every time you say "oh lol that's how women are" or "oh look at all the women overreacting."
And now you're taking the approach that "I didn't mean it!" and well, maybe you were swinging your arm and not intending to punch anyone and hit someone in the face. Would you stand there and not apologize for that, too? Because you didn't mean it?
No words are being put into your mouth. All the words you are spewing are your own. You just don't see how awful they are.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 01:00 pm (UTC)(link)So I don't understand how people think 10-12 sized women are hot. It's like... bestiality.
I'm sorry, but if more people had the view that I did in finding the beauty in "skinny" (as people being overweight is considered normal these days), everyone would be a lot happier.
There's a difference between saying "heavier women aren't my type" and saying "god, I can't imagine having sex with a fat girl. It'd be like trying to do a tub of lard. Why do people think this is sexy?"
The difference being called tact. You should learn you some.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-16 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)Guys who think women are dying to hear their judgments on our bodies? I'm sorry, but all I see is asshole. Yes, they may think they are being complimentary to women who meet their approval, but if he would just not be creepy and derogatory...his good intentions would show off sooo much more.
So I don't understand how people think posters who spatter judgy comments all over the Internet at every opportunity are "just expressing an opinion." It's like...verbal diarrhea.
I'm sorry, but if more guys had less sense of self-important entitlement, everyone would be a lot happier.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-17 12:54 am (UTC)(link)You wondered aloud how people were finding this offensive and got an explanation. Now you're just changing the subject.
Re: You can have opinions, as long as it doesn't offend anyone.
(Anonymous) 2010-09-17 03:53 am (UTC)(link)I really hope you're not implying you're not emotive and feeble, because girl. Girl. You're one of the biggest, most hilariously hair-trigger dramabombs I've ever seen, and that's saying something.
and while we have rights to speak, again...we only do if it doesn't offend anyone.
Course you have the right to speak. And then people have the right to call you on your bullshit.