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fandomsecrets2010-10-06 04:59 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2010-10-06 04:59 pm
[ SECRET POST #1372 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1372 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 100 secrets from Secret Submission Post #196.
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Speaking from experience, I've had friends become someone completely different from who I knew them to really be. It's very hard to let go of the friendship (in my case, I kept seeing glimpses of what they were which made me want to try to get even closer to them) but, at the time, the separation and slight distancing of myself was the right thing to do. My friend needed to realize that it wasn't all the bells and whistles she added on which I valued, but rather the person who she really was. (Not to say I abandoned her, I was very much there for her, but I did my best to not be there for the characters she had created.)
If your friend goes off to college, I suspect that she'll have a bit of a hard time there. Most people use their freshman year as a time to try to figure out who it is they are. I hope that you are able to stay in contact with this person to help support them through this time.
All my best wishes go out to you in this. It is a very difficult situation.