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fandomsecrets2010-10-08 05:14 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2010-10-08 05:14 pm
[ SECRET POST #1374 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1374 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #196.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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I'm telling you this, because this is something you need to learn to nip in the bud right now. This is how some of the earliest stages of depression manifest, by negatively comparing yourself to others. You start thinking "If I had their looks or their money or their family or friends or their connections or their opportunities", and once you get started it doesn't stop. You start resenting the qualities you think you lack that you see in others. Then you hit a point where you think almost everyone else is somehow "better" than you. It's a downward spiral, and one that feeds itself. The only way to be happy with who you are is learn how to be happy with who you are, NOT that you've managed to turn yourself into someone else. You don't have to be like somebody else, you can just be a better you. Life isn't about being more or less like someone else or having the same kind of life that they do. It's about finding out for yourself what makes you happy and doing that.
You have NOT failed, OP. It's impossible for you to have failed, you haven't even begun. But good grades and on your way to a good college is a hell of a headstart. You've done good, and you deserve better for yourself than to go to college depressed. And what's more, you're doing it for yourself, not at the whim of some record company or publicity machine. Don't be fooled by the glamour. Life's still yours for the taking. Now more than ever, actually.
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Well said, dazz. :)